This is why you don't see new posts anymore. I don't know how to live and think sans ill will.
Have you met people before though? I have, and I can’t conclude anything other than I’m a delight and they don’t notice anything worth paying attention to.
(Pleased that you’re still reading.)
I consume self-improvement books on an on-again-off-again basis, and they stress the importance of having a positive attitude. ‘You are what you think.’ Usually, the causality looks like this: value > belief > think > say > act > habit > how-your-life-plays-out.
After 34 years of doing things and saying things, I find that I work harder at staying generous and open, while everyone’s teeth are getting more yellow.
To be clear: I commit time to bettering myself while others are being super lame.